The reason you are always trying to see five steps ahead is because you are afraid to be hurt…
Those other women/men have hurt you…
so you’re always looking ahead trying to protect yourself.
There is no protection needed here, there is no looking ahead, they are not “too good to be true.”
You are going to have to trust her/him.
She/he will not hurt you.
repeat after me…
“She/he will not hurt me.”