Don’t be eye candy, be soul food.


Don’t be eye candy, be soul food.
Make him fall for what you represent.
Give him “brain” before the intercourse, feed him your knowledge and inner being.
Be a work of art that must be appreciated, and set your value high and not too easy to seize.
When you undress from your clothes and bear your naked body for him to see, what a special treat that will be, but let it be dessert not an appetizer cuisine.
Make him suddenly register he’s been starving, and watch him as he wants to gorge in your physique.
Let your body be the treat, after you have showed him what you portray and he has become a glutton to your intellect.
Don’t be eye candy, be soul food.

Oscars For Change


The Oscars has always been an event that many America’s look forward to because well, movies are BIG in our country and society.
Last night we had some of these honorable people of the media that many of us look up to give some wonderful speeches about change.
Common and John Legend spoke of racial rights, which was very touching because Common is one of the biggest lyrical geniuses there is in the music industry.
Alejandro Inarritu spoke of equal respect for immigrants which was very close to home for me because I am very proud of my people and where my family comes from. It also touched many Mexicans world wide as they continue to fight for their rights in this country but also the Mexican’s that are in their motherland fighting to have a fair governmental system.
Graham Moore told us all to stay weird! There is nothing better then that as a motivation that lives do MATTER and that if we are ever feeling down and want to let go, we shouldn’t!!!
And then came the ladies…
Women rights is a world wide issue.
In today’s society when you have women like Kim Kardashian and Amber Rose who desperately downgrade themselves for attention and are willing to do anything to get it, real women get over looked because these women are modeling in nudity or starting twitter fights just to stay in the spot light.
Patricia Arquette reminded us last night of the importance of what it is to be a woman in this country and entire globe. She showed us what we truly need to focus on and be like, instead of being a woman who “Breaks the Internet.”

So with that said….
Remember ladies this is your time to be inspiring, honorable, and desiring with out reveling too much.
Show the people around you what you’re made of and what you have to offer with out needing to downgrade to the level of disrespect.
Make a difference in this reality instead of honoring or wanting to be like these non talented reality chicks.

Be a feminist.
Give feminism the power it deserves.
Let’s stand for our ladies world wide and make a difference.👊

Wake up Generation-Y, this is our World, our Country, our Society.
Why continue to honor non talented men and woman who are willing to do anything for the spot light?
Instead lets honor and be inspired by those who show us all to stop with the racist shit and prejudicism, to fight for our rights and BE ourselves! 👊


Living the dream.

I won’t stop until I’m her…

I wake up and see her, she’s so close, yet so far it’s frustrating.
She knows what she wants, even if at times it seems like she’ll never achieve it.
She tries hard to fulfill it, but her disatisfaction is so loud it’s resounding.
One problem, two problems, three problems, four , when will she be happy with what she’s got?
I’ve become obsessed with the woman I am suppose to be.
The woman I believe, she needs to be.
I wake up and see her, she’s so close, yet so far it’s obstruct.
She’s the reason behind everything I do, she’s the reason I’ve yet to give up.
My actions are carefully conducted, with that familiar face in mind.
I won’t stop until I’m her.

“I don’t know how you do it?”
 “How can you be okay after all you’ve been through?”

I do it because no one else is going to do it for me. Because if I desire happiness, if I desire peace in my heart and love I have to find it with in myself.

I’m okay because I have accepted life for what it is. Because I see the beauty in life and I’m grateful for being a live and for the chance god has gave me to breathe again. I’m okay simply because I still have the ability to dream, desire, want and feel.

What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger and you can’t truly breathe love and happiness with out inhaling hurt and disappointment along with a little bit of chaos.


Your beauty should make you stand up tall, not lie down on your back.


Your a woman with integrity, shining oh so heavenly. Do not forget your worth, remember you can put your own price to it. Quit giving up the cookie to anyone who wants it; if you want to share it, make them work hard to get it. Don’t let their eyes wonder on your physic, make them focus on what’s underneath. Show them who you really are, f**k them with your brain, let them lust for your intelligence. Don’t put him on a high horse, that can back fire making him think he can ride around and see what else is out there. Please don’t stroke his ego, stand your ground, show him he’s the one who needs you. He just might get frustrated and refer to you as greedy, show him it’s okay to be a little selfish and if he really wants it, he’ll know that you’re worthy. For a woman with some class should never give in to temptation until she knows her man will always be respectful.  Rememeber you are beautiful, your flaws are what make you flawless. Don’t give into the media, recollect that “ass shots” only get you attention from a dog; someone that will salavate all over you and treat you like a rag doll.
Stop letting today’s society blind you from what’s important, making you miscalculation the true value of your beauty. Your beauty should make you stand up tall, not lie down on your back destroying your merit and preventing you from being a woman with some class.


To all my beautiful ladies;