Are you an over thinker?

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Are you an over thinker?
Do you wonder; “What’s next?”
Do you find your mind taking control of it’s self making you feel like maybe you’re nuts?”
About 91% percent of you guys said yes to these questions.
So what should that tell you?
Well, you are not the only one who over thinks.
As a matter of fact, according to studies…
Men over think more than women, at the fact that us women express more and keep less of it bottled up inside.
And 91% of people over think and question everything in their lives.
So how do you stop this?
You can’t, it’s bound to happen.
Specially when you have goals, there is something you desire, or something is bothering you.
There is only one thing you CAN do…
Don’t let it take over you.
Learn to be a witness, in your own life. Once you’ve accomplish this, it is very beautiful to think.
Enjoy your own thoughts, after all some of them may be cool ideas on how to better your life.
When they seem a little crazy, or you feel like the universe is trying to tell you something…
Just listen, take it in, and make a note of it; but do not let them over shadow reality and/or your happiness.
Appreciate and admire your mind…
It’s just like going to a theater and watching a movie where we just witness the picture on the screen.
In the same way, just witness your thoughts.
The mind is something which is not understood by science even today.
It’s so complicated and so tremendously powerful at the same time with so much potential in it.
So stop trying to understand it, you WILL drive yourself crazy.
Just watch it, just watch the happening, do not judge, and do not see it like an enemy.
Just watch and allow it to complement your life for the better.
In the end always follow your heart and make decisions based on what you know you deserve and what’s going to make you happy.
Kbeautifulmind🌻

Woman Crush Wednesday

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“Don’t build a wall around your own suffering or it may devour you from the inside.” – Frida Kahlo🌹

One of my favorite quotes by such an enchanting, smart, and unique woman.
She not only understood the power of love, but most importantly understood the power of S E L F 💕 L O V E.
She understood that one must find peace and hope within ourselves in order to be happy.
We can’t let the betrayals of others destroy our self being and believes.
We must fight off the poison others try to venom our lives with.
We MUST always stay true to ourselves…
After all, remember we are stuck with ourselves until the day we no longer breathe.
Love the’ as much as you have loved or will love another.
Kbeautifulmind♡

Consumed

No one understands what it’s like to let yourself be consumed by a relationship because you love them, until you have experienced it.
Remember, yes you may love them (boyfriend/girlfriend/friends/AND specially FAMILY) but don’t ever lose yourself over love.
If it is unhealthy, if they don’t care like you do, if they don’t appreciate you, respect you, and love you like you deserve… it’s time to throw in the towel and call it quits.
I know it’s hard, we were taught to never be quitters, BUT sometimes it’s your life over their needs.
And staying somewhere, where you are miserable, unhealthy, abusing substances (yes food is a substance), is just you slowly committing succide over the the happiness of others.
It just ISN’T worth it.
-Kbeautifulmind

Let’s have a moment of silence…

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Where were you when the world🌏stop turning that September day?
Did you shout out in anger in fear for you and your neighbors, or did you just sit down and cry?
I was about 12 years old, and I rememeber breaking down in tears.
Thinking, “man… life is a bit unfair sometimes…” My mom told me that night, “We don’t know why these things happen, that’s why you MUST cherish every minute of life you get, because people don’t realize it is a blessing JUST to be alive…”

Let’s have a moment of silence…
For the people who packed their luggage the night before, only to never unpack them again.
For the parents who kissed their kids goodbye, only to be the last kiss they’d ever give them.
For the husband who called his wife right before his plane crashed just to say, “This is it, I will always love you.”
For those that watched the buildings go down in front of them, knowing they couldn’t do anything to help.
For the firefighters and policemen who went in to help, only to lose their lives as well.
For the children who sat at school with fear, wondering if their parents were going to be okay?
But let’s not forget…
For ALL the lives that were lost not only on 9/11 but through out the days, months, years after that because of this “terrorist” threat.
and for all the innocent people… that “looked” like the responsible “ideal” terrorist that were bullied, attacked, robbed, pushed around, blamed, and even KILLED for something that till this day has no DIRECT person to blame…
at least not by a 100 percent proof.
We all have our own theories I’m sure…
R.I.P to all the victims that have died because of 9/11.
-Kbeautifulmind

The difference

The difference between the others and I, is that they just want him.
They look and see him for his body, those eyes, and oh that smile.
I don’t want him, his body isn’t worth much to me.
His looks are just a charming thing to see, but they won’t make me better.
I want to support him, motivate him, and encourage him.
I want to listen to him, understand him, and watch him grow.
You see, the difference between them and I, is that I actually see him.
When I look at him I don’t just see his physical appearance.
I see his soul and feel his energy that represent him as an individual.
The difference between the others and I, is that…
I actually want to know him and love him unconditionally.
-Kbeautifulmind