Where was I when you figured out all those little doubts were just too much to conquer,

Was I smilin’ like a fool
Over morning kisses and pancakes?

Did you know it was a lie
When you said you could see yourself with me?

Was I laying on your chest rocking my hips to your heart beat?

Was it after making love, as you noticed I was falling?

Was there ever an exact moment, or did your feelings never rise for me?

What was it like to watch me fall, knowing that you wouldn’t catch me?

Where was I?
Why couldn’t I see it ending?

-Kbeautifulmind

Dear Women

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Dear Woman,
I want to encourage you, from a woman to a woman.
From a fighter to a fighter.
May you always believe in yourself.
May you rememeber that society belittles you, but this world wouldn’t survive with out you.
May you know that you are beautiful.
May you be confident and walk with pride and honor.
May you rememeber that looks expire, and it’s what’s on the inside that matters.
May you know your value, and never settle for anything that makes you unhappy or uncomfortable.
May you rememeber you are a woman, and other women are your sisters… Respect them.
Team up with them.
Encourage them.
Honor them.
May you always know to never be the other woman.
May you always honor yourself.
May you always appreciate yourself.
May you always love yourself.
May you always encourage yourself.
May you always know you CAN fight.
May you always know you CAN win.
May you always know you are not alone.
May you always know that there is no one out there like YOU.
Society needs you.
Children need you.
They might not all admit it,
But MEN need you too.
Without you they couldn’t reproduce, grow, build.
May you never take a breath for granted, and be grateful…
For there is other women, other warriors that are no longer breathing…
or fighting to continue to breathe.
-Kbeautifulmind

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1 in 3 women get cancer.
Not just breast cancer, but all types of cancers.
I know many people who have had it.
My friends have had it.
My friend’s mothers, grandmothers, aunts, sisters, cousins, etc.
One of my close friends had a stage 0-1 cancer, I couldn’t even understand how that was real?
A little later I got the same kind.
It’s called pre-cancer, not good enough for treatment yet, but it’s there… so you got to get your body to fight it.
My close friend’s mother died from breast cancer.
My grandmother I rarely knew did too.
My godmother died from it.
My mom died from Lung Cancer.
Her best friend Ana, died from leukemia.
Some of my close friends mother’s have beat it.
This thing is everywhere…
Rememeber good health is a privilege.
To be alive is a gift.
May you never take a breath for granted.

Are you an over thinker?

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Are you an over thinker?
Do you wonder; “What’s next?”
Do you find your mind taking control of it’s self making you feel like maybe you’re nuts?”
About 91% percent of you guys said yes to these questions.
So what should that tell you?
Well, you are not the only one who over thinks.
As a matter of fact, according to studies…
Men over think more than women, at the fact that us women express more and keep less of it bottled up inside.
And 91% of people over think and question everything in their lives.
So how do you stop this?
You can’t, it’s bound to happen.
Specially when you have goals, there is something you desire, or something is bothering you.
There is only one thing you CAN do…
Don’t let it take over you.
Learn to be a witness, in your own life. Once you’ve accomplish this, it is very beautiful to think.
Enjoy your own thoughts, after all some of them may be cool ideas on how to better your life.
When they seem a little crazy, or you feel like the universe is trying to tell you something…
Just listen, take it in, and make a note of it; but do not let them over shadow reality and/or your happiness.
Appreciate and admire your mind…
It’s just like going to a theater and watching a movie where we just witness the picture on the screen.
In the same way, just witness your thoughts.
The mind is something which is not understood by science even today.
It’s so complicated and so tremendously powerful at the same time with so much potential in it.
So stop trying to understand it, you WILL drive yourself crazy.
Just watch it, just watch the happening, do not judge, and do not see it like an enemy.
Just watch and allow it to complement your life for the better.
In the end always follow your heart and make decisions based on what you know you deserve and what’s going to make you happy.
Kbeautifulmind🌻

Woman Crush Wednesday

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“Don’t build a wall around your own suffering or it may devour you from the inside.” – Frida Kahlo🌹

One of my favorite quotes by such an enchanting, smart, and unique woman.
She not only understood the power of love, but most importantly understood the power of S E L F 💕 L O V E.
She understood that one must find peace and hope within ourselves in order to be happy.
We can’t let the betrayals of others destroy our self being and believes.
We must fight off the poison others try to venom our lives with.
We MUST always stay true to ourselves…
After all, remember we are stuck with ourselves until the day we no longer breathe.
Love the’ as much as you have loved or will love another.
Kbeautifulmind♡